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Something I Used to Think

 Back in the days of my youth and naivety, I used to think when I reached my 50s life would be slow and staid and not much going on.  I figured I would spend my days sitting in my rocking chair and thinking about days gone by.  My 50s are rapidly running out and so far that hasn't happened.  For one thing, I don't even own a rocking chair.   I realize my parents, particularly my mother, had quite a deal to do with my earlier perceptions of my future.  My parents kept to themselves for the most part. We had extended family that would visit off and on, but we didn't entertain anyone aside from family members. My parents didn't belong to any organizations or clubs or suchlike.  It just wasn't how either of them were raised.  As a family in my younger years we would on occasion go to the beach. When my uncles would visit they and my dad would go surf fishing. My dad had been a lumberjack back in the day, but by the time I came along he worked as ...

House of Howard; End of Year Update

 It has been a mild fall this year.  We had a brief skiff of snow here a couple of weeks ago, maybe an inch.  It didn't stick around long.  It fell on a Monday afternoon.  Ellen went to college, then stayed overnight with a couple of friends out there.   Ellen:  This past year has been a big one for Ellen. She graduated from high school and started college.  She is majoring in psychology with the end goal of high school counselor.   She is doing well in college.  I think she has realized that indeed she did NOT in fact "peak" in high school.  She is having fun in her UAC group, University Activities Committee.  They have planned a couple of Bingo nights.  There was the Grocery Bingo night; in which a couple/three of the members, Ellen was one, went grocery shopping at Walmart and bought over $500 worth of groceries; both food and cleaning products.  Then that evening they played Bingo and if they won they go...

Cats Update

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This is Chica. We figure Chica must be a bit over a year old now. We added her to our family the day before Thanksgiving last fall, which was about Nov 27th, I believe. We figured she wasn’t quite 8 weeks old so she would have been born in early October.  She wasn’t blessed with a great deal of brains, which is how she was separated from her Mama. Or at least that is my theory   Since she got herself stranded up a tree two different times, I have not let her go outside alone since last winter.  She does go to the cat habitat, as we refer to it.  She likes to go out there in the mornings after her breakfast  I bring her back in about mid day.   She is stretched out on my lap on the sofa at this very moment.  I’m glad she likes to curl up on my lap  I missed that when Matilda died.  Smudge isn’t a lap cat   This is Smudge. Smudge has one interest in life. Eating.  You can’t really tell from these pictures, but Smudgie is about 16 poun...

I Miss These -Random Alpha Gal Update

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 This is a grilled cheese sammy I made for Ellen a couple of days ago. It’s on keto bread, so low carb. But it has real cheese on it, which I can no longer indulge in.   Apparently I truly have become histamine intolerant or something. On the way to the Paul McCartney concert my “new” pants I got at a local thrift store set off my histamine alarm bells and my ears buzzed for the next 12+ hours; tinnitus I believe. In the thrift stores they don’t wash donated clothes but spray or steam them with some sort of solution. Even after I’d washed them the smell was super strong. I put a throw over my lap when I realized what was going on, but the damage was done. I’ve washed both pair of jeans twice since we came home and they still smell!  They must have really doused them. Anyway.  The point being. I’ve had to get new pants because I’ve lost about 20 lbs so far. I probably could lose more weight  but my “safe” foods include too many carbs; including oatmeal, rice, pot...

A Trip to Tulsa!

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Yesterday we took a long drive to Tulsa to catch a concert from a living legend!  Yes. Paul McCartney!  He is going pretty strong for a guy in his 80s!   We stayed in a motel just a bit on the edge of the city. Then Gary drove us downtown. The traffic wasn’t all that bad. Not half as bad as Portland Oregon, that’s for sure! We had an absolute blast and I don’t regret one minute of it!  

What a Rip Off

So Gary is progressing right along with the house across the road.  He got the gross sink, fridge and range torn out of the kitchen and a new sink put in.  He put in new dry wall pieces and plywood around the bathtub area, then he painted the bathroom.  All of the flooring had been ripped out of the house by the ex-wife.  So Gary went around pulling out all of the staples and sanding down the plywood to smooth it out. A Lowe's rep came out this morning to measure the house for new flooring.  It came out to a total of 568 feet.  That includes the two bedrooms, the mini laundry room, kitchen, bathroom and living room. She put on her report that the subflooring looked like new.   Gary got a call from the store stating that since the subflooring was so bad they were going to have to put down new plywood and padding under the linoleum.  And to top it off they were going to charge us for 1000 square feet of the flooring, for a grand total of $5800 ...

Sunset, and more about the Alpha Gal

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Oh look. I’ve figured out how to get pictures into a blog post from my phone. Hooray!   Well. This will help me out tremendously because I don’t always have the time, patience, or access to blog from the laptop. Not to mention our internet is horribly spotty. Up and down all day long. Gary says if we weren’t getting it for free we would be looking for a different provider. Hmph! **** At the moment, after midnight on this Friday night waiting on pins and needles for my child to get home from a trip to Springfield with friends, I cannot remember if I have talked about this in here before or not.  But this Alpha Gal Syndrome, while my case is supposedly mild, has morphed my system into some sort of histamine intolerance, or mast cell activation syndrome. This is not uncommon, according to what I read in the various AGS groups on Facebook. In a nutshell it means that every strong smell, from food to household cleaners and soaps, lotions, deodorants…whatever… gives me an allergic r...